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79. Little Deaths/Delights

Get out of your head to be HotterGood morning cuties, angels, and lovers. I hope that you all had a wonderful valentines day! I myself had a great one, I feel happy, well-fed, and relaxed. There

hailo·

February 16, 2026

Good morning cuties, angels, and lovers.

I hope that you all had a wonderful valentines day! I myself had a great one, I feel happy, well-fed, and relaxed.

There's something in the "How to be Hotter Guide" that I've been thinking about a lot about self-censoring. There's a part of your brain that will self-monitor you and can lead to overthinking instead of just being present and acting. I think practicing the art of presence and embodiment is one step to being Hotter and a big step in being a member of Hot Literati <3

Little Deaths

- Cold! I've hit my winter cap, I'm ready for spring
- Homesick - I miss my family lots
- Uncertainty - I myself am at a period of change in my life and i'm learning to be excited instead of afraid

Little Delights

- Cute undies! I recently found this brand and am obsessed
- Cute pastries! I had an Éphémère from La Farine this weekend (pictured)
- Writing! I've been journaling lots, Guided writing along with strange, incoherent lines and it always helps get the spirals out

Don't forget to embody yourself this week! To get out of your head to walk around, dance, feel the texture of things, and just be.

<3

xx

hailo

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