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Weird Girl Winter Rituals

Hiii. Yesterday I re-read and annotated Audre Lorde’s essay Uses of the Erotic. Her writing almost always remains in that state of beauty and elusivity, so of course, there are concepts and sentences I am still grappling with. Nonetheless, the way she uses words to worship eroticism and its nature reminded me of my own personal practices….acting like a beautiful animal, making myself feel like a housewife awaiting a charming husband to motivate me to clean, and meditating to slow music in the da

Zara & Maskaya

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December 3, 2025

Hiii. Yesterday I re-read and annotated Audre Lorde's essay Uses of the Erotic. Her writing almost always remains in that state of beauty and elusivity, so of course, there are concepts and sentences I am still grappling with. Nonetheless, the way she uses words to worship eroticism and its nature reminded me of my own personal practices….acting like a beautiful animal, making myself feel like a housewife awaiting a charming husband to motivate me to clean, and meditating to slow music in the dark while I shower. Check out the rituals we've listed below! (some erotic, some not)....Maybe they'll inspire you to tap into a part of yourself you've repressed or make daily life more exciting/aesthetically pleasing. Enjoy <3

-Maskya

Here are our most favorite rituals for you to participate in this Weird Girl Winter:

- Crawling on your floor like a panther, nightly
- Reading stream of consciousness literature in the morning and erotica at night
- Cleaning in a lingerie/pinup dress
- Showering in the dark with jazz playing on a speaker
- Writing a poem about your dream(s) the second you wake up
- Painting your toenails while sitting on the bathroom floor
- Host weekly dance parties with your friends and have everyone put their phones in a box
- Writing letters to strangers and putting them in library books
- Using lace as a bookmark

Share ur Weird Girl Winter rituals w us in the comments <33 love u all byee

- maskya & zara

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